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Elijah’s first birthday Plans

Can you believe we are already in the middle of March? My baby turns 1 this month!! It has gone way too fast. My plans for his birthday are not a lot really. He doesn’t have any baby friends yet, so no point in throwing a party. His daddy will be working late as its a Friday his birthday falls on. So I am thinking I will just go around my dad’s house and do a nice little celebration and dinner round there. I will get Timmy to help me make a cake, he loves decorating cakes, not so much eating them. I have the weirdest child, he will not lick the bowl or the spoon, the BEST part of making cakes! I have not organised any presents as yet. He does not need a whole lot, so I am thinking I’ll just get him a little play tunnel which I think he would love to play with Timmy. Besides that, ill get him some winter clothes which he is need of. So not a very exciting birthday, but will still be nice and special.

My Study’s

So if you follow me on my social media accounts, Facebook, twitter or Instagram you will know that I am currently studying a diploma in childcare. I started it last year after I had Elijah, and I fell far behind. Mainly due to my self doubt! It is by far my worst quality, I second guess everything I do and question every choice a thousand times. So I delayed doing exams out of fear I would fail. So far I have not got below 90% in a single exam, so I really should stop the self doubt and just get on with it as I am clearly capable of doing it! So I am now trying very hard to catch up. I need to be doing an exam once every week for the next 2 months in order to catch up and then if I continue along the same routine, I should finish my course by the end of the year, that is my goal. I still have my work placement to do and I am hoping I will be ready to do this next month.

Personal Goals

Ok, so I have blogging goals which is to blog more regularly. As of late I have been really uninspired by my own blog, I need to update the theme so its more exciting, I have just added some more areas which will expand my blog a little more. I’ve included food and drinks, books, mummy time and an arts n crafts section. And obviously there is the main blog section too.

Future Holidays

So Timmy and his daddy are heading to the UK in a few months for a couple of weeks to visit family. Just the thought brings me to tears, the idea of putting my 3 year old on a plane and sending him off half way around the world, its too much to bear! I have never left Timmy for more then 2 days, and he was in the same country! Its a HUGE deal!! not to mention his birthday will fall on his holiday, so I wont be with him! I will not be going because Elijah will need to be held the whole journey as he is too little to have his own seat yet, that idea is not one I think of as much fun! So, I’ve decided, while they are off trekking the world, I am going to take me and Elijah on a holiday of our own, just not sure where yet! I really want to go to Melbourne. I have been before and loved it, so would be nice to go again! Or I could go up north. It would be winter time, so ill do some research and decide where I need to go.  I do know I do not want to be sitting around the house, sad and missing my biggest monkey which is exactly what I will be doing. So I must make a plan for me! keep myself busy as possible.

So this is my latest update. Hope you enjoy!

Candice xx



2017 – Our first year in Australia

I can not believe it has been over a year now since we moved from the UK to Australia. We moved in October 2016. So much has happened in this past year, its been slightly crazy. It only seemed like yesterday my partner came home to tell me he quite his job and wanted to move to Australia.

So, where do we begin, well you can read all about my first 3 months in Australia here living in oz, 3 month update But since then, as soon as Carl’s bridging visa came through he got a job, I then stopped working to take care of Timmy again. Plus I was heavily pregnant and was ready to put the brakes on! We got ourselves a rental house which was basically empty when we first moved in with the odd bit of second hand furniture courtesy of my family. When we moved over here, we came with nothing. Literally a couple of suitcases and that was it. Our house honestly looked like a second hand furniture shop full of mix matched items, nothing went together and we did not even have a dining room table, no blinds or curtains on the windows. It took a little while before our house started coming together. But we were just so happy to be out of our family’s house as it was more then cramped with so many adults and a child under one roof! On our first night we were greeted with a lovely huge Hunstman spider running across the floor, me screaming and jumping on the sofa for carl to kill it. Welcome to Australia. Then only a couple of days later I had a redback spider crawl right next to my leg on the sofa. I was not impressed! I hate spiders with a passion, no matter if they are big or small, they need to go, there is no room in my life for them!

For a while I needed to drive Carl to work every day as we only had the one car which is lent to us from my family, but with the help of my lovely cousin and her hubby we were able to get a second car. Carl got his driving licence and he started to drive himself to and from work. This made life for me so much easier. We love our second car, it is truly a great car. Except for the first week or so, I thought there was something wrong, as when I was diving it, it would not change gear ( it is automatic!) I thought we had brought a lemon. Hmm, nope turns out it was my stupidness and I was driving it in the manual setting. How stupid can I be? I don’t think I will ever live it down. I will be hearing about that for the rest of my days if Carl has anything to do with it. So yes, Carl quickly got settled into his new job, I enrolled Timmy into swimming lessons, which did not last long because when he realised he would have to go under the water at the end of each lesson and that was that. The fight to get him to go every week was not worth it! I found a play group with lots of lovely ladies and even had a night out to dinner with them. I have not been in a while now as on that day Timmy is in school now and I have been very busy. But now Elijah is older, hopefully I can get back into going again! Timmy is in preschool which he loves! He goes to school 3x a week, I call these days my days off, even though I still have Elijah to look after. I gave birth to Elijah back in March, went through a few months of hard times with some postnatal depression. Honestly, I started getting better, then just a few weeks ago I felt waves of it coming back. I ran into a lady and she asked me how I was doing, I burst into tears which I was not expecting! but yes, I suspect it is still with me but i’m aware of it. I think I am going to start to revisit  The Parental Stress Centre you can see my post about them here The Parental Stress Centre honestly, the programme I did with them was exactly what I needed. If there is anyone reading this that struggles day to day, it does not have to be PND but in general. You find being a parent hard, stressful, have anxiety or are even just struggling please look them up they offer different course options, and are seriously affordable. They did me wonders, and ill keep using them to keep me in check and get me back on track when I fall off.

I finished my childcare course from overseas which I started before I knew we were leaving the UK. I have since enrolled into a diploma of childcare via online here in Australia which I am enjoying, but really need to make a more regular pattern of studying! It took me a long time after having my kiddies to decide when I go back to work what I wanted to do. I have now decided for sure child care is what I want to do, so while I am a stay at home mum it is the perfect time for me to get my qualification!

Carl got approved for his temporary Australian Visa, then the company we went through fast tracked our application for a permanent visa, which was instantly approved. Normally you need to wait for 3 years I think before you can apply for the Permanent, but as we had extensive proof we had lived together, and the fact we have 2 children together helped in our favor!

We managed to get a couple of holidays in, we went last year to visit Granny in Grafton with my cousin. We went again this year after I had Elijah to visit her, but this time we turned it into a real family holiday and went to Queensland for 4 days and did the theme parks. Which you can read about here Our Family Trip to Queensland

We have also had a few weeks here and there where we have managed to go down the coast for a couple of days. We enjoy going down south, it is so beautiful. Every time we go down we manage to find something new to do or a new place to visit. Our most favorite place to go lately is Jarvis bay. It is so spectacular. It is well known for its white sand. Honestly breathtaking!

This is Chinaman’s Beach Jarvis Bay

We had Carl’s parents come to visit us last for 3 weeks. That was super lovely. They got to see a fair bit and spend a lot of time with Timmy, which I know he loved so much as did they. It went so fast.

So, as you can see it has been a fairly busy 2017 for us! Things have now settled down and we are settling in properly. Christmas 2017 was  a really good one. This is the first year we have had our own Christmas tree. The first year, we were on Sark, it was a borrowed tree. The second year we were in Australia visiting family, the third year we were in Bristol for Christmas, that was a tough time personally for me and Carl finding out we had a molar pregnancy and the operation right before Christmas. Miscarriages and Molar pregnancies But we did not bother doing a tree that year as we were going to be in Bristol and that Timmy was at that age where he would see lights and just try to pull them down! Then last year we were at my dads house after just moving to Australia. So this year, we are in our own home, we spent the morning opening presents in our own house right before we headed out to go to dads house for the day. I really enjoyed the champagne and orange juice for breakfast! However dad and Carl were both sick with this horrible bug that seems to be going around, I had it only a couple of weeks earlier.

So today is the first day of 2018, I am hoping this year will be just as good, just as busy and full of amazing adventures! Today I have started a Detox program which i will write about later, as after Elijah i have basically lived of Chocolate and I’m tired of putting on weight and feeling like crap. New year, new me! So happy New years to you all.


Candice xx


Timmy Time

Now my son is getting a bit older, I am really enjoying playing all sorts of games with him. He actually surprises me with how quickly he learns and what he does know how to do! His memory is insane.

One card game I love to play is UNO. I have loved this game since I was a kid. I found a pack of cards I had forgotten all about and Timmy showed an interest in wanting to play. I thought, oh, this will be fun we will end up just playing snap or memory or something. I was surprised to see when I explained the rules, he got it right away and could play. He is only 3 1/2. Now Daddy, Timmy & me all play together and it is truly a lot of fun.

Playing UNO with my big man x

I find I constantly underestimate what my son can do. I say “He is only 3, he wont know how to do that!” or ” he is too young, or too little for that”. I am constantly surprised by how fast he learns and when I tell him he is too little or wont know how to play, he tells me “yes I will!” Most of the time, he is right! Is it just me that underestimated my 3 year old? Tell me other mums out there do the same? So this is now a current favorite game we like to play!

Baking is another favorite. Timmy loves making all sorts of things. Cupcakes, cookies, jelly. Mind you, he does not eat much of what he makes, he just enjoys making them. If cupcakes have Icing on them, he wont eat them. In the picture below, he took one bite then said, “mummy you have the rest” He does love to make and eat jelly though, that’s his favorite thing to do. That boy loves his jelly!!


We love going to cafe’s together. Before I had Elijah we used to go to cafe’s at least once a week. It was one of our favorite past times. Now I mostly grab a coffee on the run or when the rare opportunity presents itself it is good to take Timmy out for a treat just me and him, like old times.


This may sound odd to some mums, but I LOVE taking my son to soft plays!! He is not a child which run’s off and causes terror among the other children, he is quite happy doing his own thing, playing on his own and letting mum sit with a coffee in peace. Now Elijah is a little older, I am excited to take him to soft play soon also. There is nothing better then going there on a rainy day and letting the kiddies burn some energy while mummy just chills for a bit. It is a great place to meet up with other mummy friends, we catch up, chat, drink coffee, and the kids all play. It’s a win win really!!


My son also loves playing twister, but I must admit, this is a game I am not totally fond of playing. He is not really good at this game yet, he knows his right and left and his colors but he is a little bit small to play properly just yet. will not be long though and he will be able to play a bit better.


If Timmy could, he would spend every single day at parks. He loves them so much! He loves the swing best, he can never go high enough! Picnics in the park, now this he just loves! I take his ball and he rolls it down the hill and chases after it. I did take his scooter once, but I ended up with it when he decided he did not want to ride or push it. So I was left pushing the pram and carrying the scooter. We no longer take the scooter!


Timmy loves to read. Every week we go to library time, they read, sing and do arts n crafts. Then after we go down stairs and pick out a few books to take home. He gets very excited at getting new books. Mind you, he has A LOT of books on his book shelve, but he still loves getting new ones. He will want to read the same one over and over again. He is now at the stage he asks what words mean, or he points to words and asks what it says. But he surprises me, because next time we read that book, he will point to the word he tell me what it says! Nothing wrong with his memory then!

Reading “The Gruffalo” one of his favorites.

Timmy loves Trains. He got this Thomas Mini’s track for his 3rd birthday and some mini trains to go with it, he has used it so much, i’m surprised it is still standing!! If i ever need to keep him occupied, I pull this out he loves it! Trains are his favorite toys.


Timmy is currently growing tomato plants, Grass heads and a sun flower!! He loves to doing gardening and watering the plants.


Visiting family. Every time i pick Timmy up he wants to go to granddad’s house, Granted he only wants to go because he gets an ice lolly and a apple juice. But he does love to spend time around Granddads house.


A growing bond with his little brother. When Timmy says he wants to give cuddles and kisses to his brother, or help put him to bed or wants a bath with him, it melts my heart. Whenever Timmy walks into the room Elijah’s face literally lights up with the biggest smile on is face. Watching these two together is such a sweet thing to witness, and I love the way they show affection towards each other. I hope they grow to be great friends and have a special bond. Nothing makes me happier then seeing these two monkeys together.


So these are a few things that Timmy enjoys doing. He enjoys doing a lot, but I would be here all day with things Timmy enjoys. So I will leave it here for now.

Candice x